Merriam Webster says a Priestess is “a woman authorized to perform the sacred rites of a religion,” and “a woman regarded as a leader.” Dictionary dot com says, “a woman who officiates in sacred rites.” So then, what is sacred? The official definition includes that which is connected with God or dedicated to a religious purpose. I am an ordained minister, one who studies spirituality, psychology, and philosophy regularly and I have for decades. I have been actively performing ceremonies for a couple of years now.

I had a mentor who encouraged me to embrace the title of Priestess. I’ve come to understand it’s not about the paper but about the devotion. My title doesn’t come from the government which authorizes me to perform ceremonies, or the church which ordained me, or any other association I could form in this world. I am who I am because of what I do. Rather, I do what I do because of who I am. When I awaken in the night from a vivid dream and write it down for later guidance, I am doing my work. When I craft a gathering to bring souls together as a remedy for the lonely and the disconnect, I am doing my work. When I answer a call from a dear friend searching for guidance, emotional support, or actionable care, I am doing my work.

In this era of my life, the sacred holds space and is growing in my awareness. I have found deep meaning in ceremonies and intentions. I have realized that my very religious upbringing was missing the spiritual element. It feels like the difference between memorizing something necessary to remember and learning something that you will comprehend, truly know, and be able to use. I am now using what I know and studying what I need to know with a passion that is hotter than any I have had before.

A quote that is a longtime favorite of mine; “The more I know, the more I realize I know nothing.” -Socrates.
I have been a life-long student with a thirst for knowledge. With decades behind me, possessing the most knowledge I ever have up to this moment, I am very aware that my own knowledge is limited compared to the potential for what can be known. Yet, I am becoming of the mindset that the greatest goal isn’t to possess all the knowledge, but rather to use the knowledge that I do possess to impact those I cross paths with for the betterment of ourselves and community. What amazing ripples of impact we could make if only everyone would simply become a better version of self and influence the collective to do the same. So, when I put on the purpose of the Priestess, I endeavor to create imprints that promote healing, growth, and higher purpose in the world around me.